Sunday, December 31, 2006

Follow up on Harry and David.

Ok my little guys, Harry and David, are home resting. I am hoping that maybe Becks or Subir will update people (but they might not want to).
And I need to apologize... I went back and listened to Becks message later tonight (once my manic period ended... THANK WHOEVER!!!) and her message was rather calm and cool. Being in the moment and trying to listen deeply to my heart I think I might have been projecting my fear on her. See my daughter, Cassandra, died at Fairfax Inova Hospital. It is a long story that I will get into some other time but let me just say that I do not think that hospitals handle cases where they might be sued very well. The fact that the surgeon (who shall remain nameless) that operated on Cassie NEVER contacted us to even say she was sorry that Cassandra died has torn a HUGE hole in the heart of my father. ALL HE WANTS IS FOR THE PEOPLE INVOLVED TO TALK TO US!!! We don't want money, we want to be reassured that this isn't going to happen to another innocent little child.
Wow... that was quite the vomit wasn't it. I am so sorry but it had to be said.
It is now time for me to curl up on the couch with my husband Todd and celebrate the New Year's privately (Sorry you're not invited)
Lots of love,
Daria

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Dear Daria,

So glad Harry and David are doing well. Surely do undertand your fear piece in this, and that was a great release of what you need from your doctor..I hear you. Wish I could make that happen...you may live with this wonderful articulation of parents'needs that so needs to be publisized.

So..be sure ..you're not a lone voice out here... I love community too and look forward to seeing how these topic reflections unfold.... Until later...and in every good karma movement....

In Peace, Kitty